Crazy, you are so right. I forgot the IUD issue. It can cause ectopic pregnancies. Sorry to mislead you.
Yes, I have been lurking in the shadows for ages. I think marriage is piecing though... probably will not come out with my own sitch.
Wishing you the best
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)