I am at the store for a moment while she is at the house.
mC thinks she might even be lying about the pregnancy. She's not shaken emotionally at all; in fact she's her cool usual self. But she's told me again that she's not happy about it and that she cried all day. I couldn't tell it by her face. To top it off; she sure is eager to do this settlement tonight; even in plain view of kids. I have steadfastly refused to do it while the kids are awake. She assumed in her words that I am eager to get it going in light of today developments. I told her that today makes new variables given her condition. Which is a possible tubal according to her so she might miscarry. That's when I smelt the skunk!
I had to tell her to spend time with her D. Something is fishy and my gut is usually right.
I'm going to do the settlement while she's in such a rush. I smell freedom from battchitt coming!!
I have nothing on which to base it...but I think you are right.
Of course we are all thinking about you. Wonder why she is trying to push you away so much. I mean, I know, but last week she was reeling you in, she pushed you away....she really hadn't tried to reel you back in (I don't think)...so it's kinda perplexing.
Oh wait. Don't try to understand the un-understandable. I remember now.
okay. wait. try this. she is trying to divorce you and move the other R forward. maybe OM backed off a little which is why she started reeling you in again. then she gets bright idea. IF I SAY I'M PREGNANT, Tom won't want me, so I won't have to worry about that...at the same time, I can hook OM into marrying me...this plan works great! i think i'll try it!
OMG. I completely understand you rethinking your stitch and honestly....I know we are supposed to keep our opinions to ourselves...but I think you will be 10 million times better off. I wish it could work for you...but I have to believe that God has something better in mind for you.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
You know your W. Do you think she's capable of such a lie? If she is, that is pretty scary, to say the least. If she did lie, I agree with Melissa. There are many good, kind, decent, and honest women in the world who would love to find their lobster (sorry for the dated "Friends" reference-couldn't resist).
I hope you're OK. This must be a terrible, heartbreaking day for you.
I hate to say this but as a former nurse. A tubal is an emergency to be treated immediately with surgery. What a crock. I would have her pee on a stick just to mess with her. She is really lying I think. Or maybe the pregnancy is true and she is planning on an abortion and doesn't want you to know the truth. I am inclined to believe that she isn't even pregnant. Wiki ectopic pregnancies and see for your self. This is really bizarre. BTW, many pregnancies start as fertilized eggs in the Fallopian Tubes then travel down to the uterus. If they implant on the tube then it's a "tubal" or ectopic pregnancy. Again an emergency- severe pain etc.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
I hate to say this but as a former nurse. A tubal is an emergency to be treated immediately with surgery. What a crock. I would have her pee on a stick just to mess with her. She is really lying I think. Or maybe the pregnancy is true and she is planning on an abortion and doesn't want you to know the truth. I am inclined to believe that she isn't even pregnant. Wiki ectopic pregnancies and see for your self. This is really bizarre. BTW, many pregnancies start as fertilized eggs in the Fallopian Tubes then travel down to the uterus. If they implant on the tube then it's a "tubal" or ectopic pregnancy. Again an emergency- severe pain etc.
Hey June...
I just got done with another convo with her. She was explaining her sitch. Evidently, she just missed her fist period; she had an IUD in that supposedly was to last 5 years. Her doc pulled it out yesterday and discovered that it wasn't in all the way and indicated that usually means a tubal. She is supposedly only 5.5 half weeks along. She is scheduled for an ultrasound next week; while the doc said he wouldn't be able to see anything in the uterus; he would be able to interrogate the tubes and check for a mass. If there is a mass; he'll have to do surgery to remove it.
Maybe it was a sick, sick April Fool's joke afterall!!!! Good luck!! We are rooting for you!!
Thanks for the support. She told me that she's told her step-mother who did a similar thing while married to her first H. Only difference is that her first H adopted her step-mother's love child.
Crazy, you are so right. I forgot the IUD issue. It can cause ectopic pregnancies. Sorry to mislead you.
Yes, I have been lurking in the shadows for ages. I think marriage is piecing though... probably will not come out with my own sitch.
Wishing you the best
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
