So, I'm totally falling apart right now. This conversation he wants to have about divorce is freaking me out. I'm trying to think of the worst case scenario so I can be prepared. I'm really good at that, a little too good. I'm thinking he's going to tell me that he's filed and that his fish and chips chick is going to move to the states to be with him. Yeah, I'm sure that's asking for trouble, but I want to be prepared.
Should I act as if I'm okay and agreeing to a divorce? Wouldn't that be reinforcing his belief that we're no longer good for each other? It's hard for me to feel like these tactics are working when the day after I thought I did so well he's asking to talk about divorce. It feels more like what I did and the time we spent as a family pushed him closer to his decision. Is this how it usually goes? Do all WASes do this? I'm so confused.
