Not that this is relevant to the topic but I couldn't resist making a comment about Brits and their payback - I heard on the news all day about the riots outside the world conference happening there. All I could think of was how rebellious the Brits are when all the world sees them as stoics. When I was there in '69 they were rioting at that time too.
It seems so sad and such a waste for your sons to see their mother this way. Good thing they have you.