Oops!!.......I think I've dropped the rope!!

[Silent Chrleader]

Hey, Y'all. Just thought I'd post a small update.....

- Spent Sunday evening and Monday with my oldest and dearest friend (and her mom, my surrogate Mom growing up).....Found out friend's brother is LBS......will be talking to him soon hopefully. He is having a tough time. Plan to get him in touch with DB.

- My S18 is "out living his own life" and financing it apparently by having stolen more stuff, including some of my jewelry (including my wedding set!!). H talked to him and said he was repentent or willing to listen at all......but then S17 told H he "found" some of the stuff in a box in the woods behind the house......imagine that!.....it's a miracle!! {Still no ring.....}

- S18 did tell H that he thought his having a girlfriend even though we are still married was not right.......H didn't care and said basically "too bad".........I told H that his actions are what S learns from whether they we direct toward him or not. Like S learns how to be a father and husband and worker, etc.....from H. H said he knew that.........but obviously it doesn't matter to him. I'm trying not to care.

- Have had great talks with MIL. She says all H's brothers thinks H "needs to grown up"........MIL is full of good advice. She thinks that H will wake up and realize what he's doing eventually. She thinks H doesn't tell her about the girlfriend because he knows he's doing wrong........I'm not sure if I believe that. It just absolutely crushes me to think of him with her and taking her to the "dream house".

- And J is no longer a "friend" on my alternative page........let's just leave it at that.........

[[[[[[hugs to all]]]]]]