Now what do I do?

[antlers]

Tell him that you don't want a divorce for you guys. Tell him that you don't want one now or never. Tell him that you never have wanted one. Tell him that you're more committed now to him and your marriage than ever before.

But...you have to validate his feelings also. If he wants one...just tell him that you know he wants one. That's validation.

Simply don't cry or plead. Mean what you say.