I have STOPPED going down those cheeseless tunnels. After rereading this chapter I found out why I'm not getting anywhere, duh! So I have stopped it; quit calling and reprimanding H for things he hasn't done. I just hand him a bill and zip my lip! I find by justing being his friend and showing him I appreciate what he does for me, with words and a hug, helps a lot! So I'm learning to put the stop sign up! Deb
