I keep bringing up things like him not wearing his wedding ring and the necklace I bought him. That is a huge downfall with me..I can't shut up!
What things do you keep doing that aren't producing positive results for you, but you keep doing them anyway, just because you KNOW that you're right?
Mind-reading and assuming. I Always KNOW what he sees, thinks, means and expects!!! That will be my hardest habit to break. I can't just take his word, I have to blow everything totally out of proportion. ARGHHH!
More of the same behaviors are what got me back here so I am working extra hard to correct that. When I start assuming or "wondering" I scream "STOP" inside my head (wouldn't want to do that out loud in public! Hee hee) and force myself to focus on something else. I do best when I keep busy.
