Whenever you are about to do anything about a situation that might have a direct effect in your relationship, ask yourself,
Quote: "Is what I'm about to do going to bring me closer or move me farther away from my goal?"
Don't give in to your "feelings", don't "react" to the situation, and do the same thing that you've always done. Don't pretend that your partner is FINALLY going to get what you're saying, just because you've said it enough times, and come around to seeing your point of view.
Do something different.
Change anything about what you're doing.
Setting up your goals is VERY, VERY, VERY important!!! If you haven't done so already, stop here, and go back and complete steps number 2 & 3. Know where you want to go in your relationship. You really can't skip this part, and expect to have good results.
Once you've done this, we can help you to find some ways to take actions that will help your goals to be realized!!
JJ
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