Well, having read the back and forth between Puppy, you and 2gthr. They do have a valid point when they say that he's trying to show you he wants you instead of OW. HOWEVER, in letting you know only the day of, with only a couple of hours notice, I don't think you should just drop everything to be with him. It puts you in a weak position. Let him show you in action again that he's not been to the bowling place before you drop your plans to accomodate him!
