What are some of the "discussions" that you have had with your partner where you, and they, do and say the exact same thing each time?

When are the times that your arguements seem like they're being read from a script, with the exact same scenario happening each time?

How do you think that they would answer this?

Do any of the topic related triggers that Michele has listed sound familiar to you?

How about any of the "time related" triggers?

What is a particular trigger situation for you that seems to happen on a regular basis?

Quoting Michele:
What is your usual way of handling it? What do you say? What do you do?

What is your partner's usual way of handling it? What does s/he say or do?

When your partner stubbornly makes his/her point or acts a certain way, what do you typically do in return?


What do you think they would say if they were asked what it is that YOU do and say about this particular situation that drives them nuts?!

JJ

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