How do you think I should tell him that without pissing him off and thinking that our D "narked" on him?
I don't accept your premise. You tell him NO MATTER WHAT he thinks, and you tell him that it's entirely unacceptable! And that if he ever does it again (or if he says/does ANYTHING to your daughter for telling), you will "do whatever is necessary" to protect your children.
And that if he ever does it again (or if he says/does ANYTHING to your daughter for telling), you will "do whatever is necessary" to protect your children.
