Totally off topic...sort of...are you sure about signing over your share of the business to him at his stage? Do you have legal protection if you do? I know in my state it didn't matter who's name was on the business...it was a marital asset and as such was divided equally. Have you checked how it will be handled in your state given your status?
I only bring it up because if things don't work out, you want to be entitled to all the assets that you should be, and you don't want a long drawn out battle over that...you want to keep it simple if possible.
If you have already checked, and it's a non-issue, then it was a good move...showing your effort to make his life less complicated!
If you haven't, I'd be hesitant to sign over something without legal advice. In my case, even though it doesn't really matter because it's a marital asset, my attorney is still demanding a promissory note that says he'll eventually pay me for my part of the business...the market value of the business not just the value of the assets.
Other than that, I have to say, I agree on keeping your plans tonight. I might not have been able to do it, but I think it was the right move...just my 2 cents!
Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
