I have totally stopped going down cheeseless tunnels for 1 month now!!! And he's noticed. It's been difficult though not asking what he's doing or who he's with but I do it. Lots of tongue chewing going on here .
I now notice that he is more willing to volunteer info on his whereabouts and friends too.
We have a date this Friday!! Going to do some stargazing and have a picnic. I'm looking forward to it .