I see your point 100% ;), but at the same time I agree with Puppy. It's confusing LOL. But I do think that since it's the 1st wk, now would be the time to put in some extra effort than farther down the road. That's just MO.
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug