Look I am sorry it is hard to even begin to trust them but still want to. We aren't fools, and that is why it hurts.
If he asked how do you know he didn't want to be your man...simple tell him what you told us.
Tell him that if he wants your trust, then stop lying AND be preapred for you to believe he is lying at times even when he isn't. That your going to scutinize almost everything he says and does for awhile. Sorry borken trust is hard to heal...but it CAN heal, if both people want it to.
Freely given trust to someone who has broken faith is worthless.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
