Peace, There is a book my therapist highly recommended, that I haven't read yet, but its about forgiving and moving on, or deciding not to forgive and moving on. It's called "How Can I Forgive You? The courage to forgive, the Freedom not to" by Janis Spring. You are further down the road from me but I imagine at some point the letting go process means deciding to forgive or not, making a conscious decision and moving forward, past the pain. I feel for you. You are a strong woman. Your children are lucky to have you as their mother, their ballast.
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.
