Valid point 2gether and Puppy, but I'm just not willing to go that far. If that's what he needs, then so be it. I do not want to start out with me giving something up for him. As far as I'm concerned, he is still the one who has to prove he is ready for the work. If he is going to be derailed so quickly and easily then it's better to know now. I need to feel like he is willing to do whatever it takes to earn back my trust before I lavish my time and attention on him.

He has already responded to my message with: Ok – any particular time on Sunday?

I said I was free all day. The ball is in his court.

And I will be talking to his coworker(s) tomorrow to find out if he went to bowling tonight.

Last edited by pearlharbr; 04/01/09 08:07 PM.
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