Great suggestion. I am doing little things like that but nothing over the top.

I really don't feel like I know this man right now. I am so confused about everything at this point. I am sure I get clarity after I've digested some of the stuff we've talked about lately.

Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09