changing the subject back to the conversation with your H's employee (although the comforter set sounds terrific!)
Originally Posted By: Yoyowife
but as you all know it's nice to know we are not alone thinking the WAS have lost their minds!
Hi Yoyo. I told my SIL I wondered if x was truly happy with ow. She replied, "We wonder, too!". You know that made me feel happy even after being divorced for a year!
The bedding looks fab and you interior design skills rock. You inspire me with colors. I need to do what you do when I move.
Regarding your employees, do you think your H knows what a fool he is making himself to be? Do you think he cares or just prefers not to think about it. Or has he set up all justifications in his head already and therefore can live with himself?
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
PM, Thanks! But I'm not so sure my decorating skills are that great. My floors are now complete. They finished up the ceramic tile on Tuesday and hardwood on Wed. I got the new comforter set on. My room looks so different with all of the new paint, comforter, and floors. Now, I've just got to work on getting everthing that is scattered around the house in the correct places due to the remodeling!
I don't think my H has any clue about what the employees think. I won't dare tell him because I don't want to jepordize their jobs. Honestly, though I'm not sure H would care. At this time in their life, no one can tell them anything. They think themselves and the OP are perfect. They have on heavy rose colored glasses. Well, probably more like opaque black colored glasses.
DD's senior prom is next weekend. H had indicated he wanted to help with the dinner that the parents are throwing for some of the seniors before prom. Honestly, I'm tired of acting like we are one big happy family. I don't I mentioned it to him this past Sunday and he said he wanted to help, but wish I hadn't mentioned it to him!
I DD's graduation. I'm so conflicted what to do afterwards. When older DD graduated we had a family dinner with both sides of the family. Seeing now that MIL doesn't have anything to do with me and the girls. I think I will just suggest that my side of the family goes out to dinner. If H asks about the plans I will tell him and say they can come if they would like. Dang, who says this doesn't affect the kids?
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Hi Yoyo, thanks for stopping by my stich! Life is full of surprises.
So DD's big prom and graduation. I hate when the H's act like they participate in their activities. They think if they pay for it -- oh well it is ok.
As for the graduation...ask DD what she would like to do as far as dinner. She might want the other side there but let her be part of the decision making.
Speaking of decision making, how are you doing thinking about the big D and what to do with H. I have not heard anything new with my D. Hate this stuff.
So glad you decorated. That is a good sign mentally and spiritually. Taking out the old and bringing in the new, moving forward. Me thinks I have to redecorate my WHOLE house. Lol
Keep in touch. Remember you have a vacation place to run away too if you want!
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
Wow, just reread post. This shows why you should always proofread before you submit even when you are in a hurry. I'll try to clean it up some! Sorry!!!
Originally Posted By: Yoyowife
PM, Thanks! But I'm not so sure my decorating skills are that great. My floors are now complete. They finished up the ceramic tile on Tuesday and hardwood on Wed. I got the new comforter set on. My room looks so different with all of the new paint, comforter, and floors. Now, I've just got to work on getting everthing that is scattered around the house in the correct places due to the remodeling!
I don't think my H has any clue about what the employees think. I won't dare tell him because I don't want to jepordize their jobs. Honestly, though I'm not sure H would care. At this time in their life, no one can tell them anything. They think themselves and the OP are perfect. They have on heavy rose colored glasses. Well, probably more like opaque black colored glasses.
DD's senior prom is next weekend. H had indicated he wanted to help with the dinner that the parents are throwing for some of the seniors before prom. Honestly, I'm tired of acting like we are one big happy family. I mentioned it to him this past Sunday and he said he wanted to help, but I wish I hadn't mentioned it to him! DD's graduation is coming up in about a month. I'm so conflicted what to do afterwards. When older DD graduated we had a family dinner with both sides of the family. Seeing now that MIL doesn't have anything to do with me and the girls. I think I will just suggest that my side of the family goes out to dinner. If H asks about the plans I will tell him and say they can come if they would like. Dang, who says this doesn't affect the kids?
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
So DD's big prom and graduation. I hate when the H's act like they participate in their activities. They think if they pay for it -- oh well it is ok.
Actually, this time I'm paid for everything. Yes, he would have done it, but I just wanted to do it for my baby.
As for the graduation...ask DD what she would like to do as far as dinner. She might want the other side there but let her be part of the decision making.
Yes, I need to do that, but I know her, she will say it doesn't matter to me. H's family has had very little to do with our daughters since our separation. As a matter of fact they have not been invited to holiday celebrations for the past two years. They did show up for DD's homecoming ceremonies, but I wonder if it was because H (their son) was escorting her. DD has been on the HS stepper team all three years. In-laws did not come one time to see her dance. Believe me there were plenty of oppurtunities since she danced at football and basketball games.
Speaking of decision making, how are you doing thinking about the big D and what to do with H. I have not heard anything new with my D. Hate this stuff.
I'm putting it on the backburner right now with all of DD's stuff going on. Looks like I will have to be the one to file. I told him to, but I've yet to receive any papers.
So glad you decorated. That is a good sign mentally and spiritually. Taking out the old and bringing in the new, moving forward. Me thinks I have to redecorate my WHOLE house. Lol It does wonders for you, go for it!
Keep in touch. Remember you have a vacation place to run away too if you want!
That would be nice!!!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
