Originally Posted By: Phoenixdeux
P.S. If you do choose to detach a little more, it can't look like it's vindictive or that you hate her...more like you just are not that into her. Let her worry (and yes, even get upset at you) that she's losing you completely.


Your posts are the advice that I need to get me thinking about me again. I think I'm doing a good job and I think my kids are seeing their father in a new light (especially S15) as how to handle a very difficult situation. Thanks Phoenixdeux
I was kind of wondering if I was getting too friendly towards W and she may think the affair is ok - which of course its NOT and I think right now I'm doing well moving on...

Last edited by ppenton; 04/01/09 07:53 PM.
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