I see that!! Part of me is still saying if I were nice I would let him have this extra time but geez...HE did this. These are his choices and he feels he made a mistake and wants to change stuff, just so HE can be happy.

I did tell him you didn't care what anyone else thought or wanted when you did this but you want me to think about YOU now??? This is about the kids and what they want. If D8 wants to spend the night I guess I will let her but this will no way be a regular event and never a forced issue. Once and a while ok. I haven't told him that. I want to talk with d8 first.

Then the snake that he is says there is no need to get the Lawyers/court involved as long as we both agree and no one tattles. WTH??

No wonder today is just a little crazy!!

kat


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