Anyway, if you do confront the OM's W...you gotta ask yourself; is this going to make you feel better in the long run? Who knows, she might know already and is just putting up with it.
Maybe she is, maybe she isn't. I would personally err on the side of giving her the information and letting her do whatever she thought was right for HER and her family. If the A is still a secret then that is one of the big draws. The "getting away" with something, take that away and consequences set in and its not that fun anymore. Nothing like a dose of reality to shake things up. Even if she is putting up with it, she would probably at least let him know she knew.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
