I think I mentioned this, that my W had an EA with a GM of a BIG FANCY hotel here in the DFW area. I did confront his wife, I told her everything, the dinners, the happy hours, the jewelry he bought her, the clothes, the implants and so on.
At first she was angry, she was attacking me, telling me that I was a liar. I was confused, didn't know what to do. I left it alone after a few days, she emailed me asking me to meet for coffee. I never met her for coffee, but she did confront my W about it. Of course, she denied everything to the OM's W. I know the OM had a wife and 3 kids. I know he cared deeply for my wife but I think after he found out that his W knew, it scared him straight. At least I hope it did.
I did feel good about myself after telling the OM's W. But then I asked myself what did I do? I don't know if there are still together or not. I really don't care but I feel bad for his W. I did find out after a C session with my W. That he got her implants from a doctor who was having multiple A's at his hotel. The OM would cover for the doctor and so when the OM met my wife, knew she wanted implants, he called in his favor.
Anyway, if you do confront the OM's W...you gotta ask yourself; is this going to make you feel better in the long run? Who knows, she might know already and is just putting up with it.
Me - 39 W - 39 D - 11 D - 8 S - 5 Served - 04/14/09 Temporary Court Orders - 04/27/09
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