Well, here's the latest:

During the financial settlement discussion we talked about me signing over my share in the rental house business. I was against it as it is one of two things my name is actually on (the business and our house) and I think of it as part of the whole settlement agreement. xBF explained that he would benefit by being able to take the loss where I get nothing from it and would also have to file a tax return (don't have to now since I didn't work at all in 2008).

After thinking about it for a day and tentatively agreeing on a settlement, I emailed yesterday that I would sign over my share of the business if it would help him.

I got this email from xBF this morning:
Thanks – can I stop by tonight?

So I realize this is his attempt to show me that he quit the bowling league. On the other hand, I already have plans to go to yoga tonight. So I think I will tell him I already have plans. I am free on Sunday. We'll see how that goes over.

Last edited by pearlharbr; 04/01/09 07:02 PM.

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