AARRGG, Ex just called asking me if I got an e-mail from him. I hadn't that I noticed but refreshed it and there it was. He said he took the kids aside one by one last night and asked if they wanted more time with him. He asked me not to discuss it but took it upon himself to do it.
D8 misses Daddy, D10 is indifferent and S13 is a definetly not. So he gets in this discussion with me. I want this, I want that. I said not once did the kids say they wanted to spend the night tonight to me. I was mad that he went ahead and brought this stuff up. Then he said you always criticize my parenting, what about you? You spend a lot of time on the computer, what about that? What about you being emotional in front of the kids?
I told him for someone that said he didn't want to fight, you sure sound like you do. I said you killed a part of me when you left and I am trying to get back to me. He said well I am too. Really, how did part of you die?
I asked him not to call or e-mail me. I just don't need it. I did tell him that I was upset about the B that I was going in to resign papers for. He said his was really easy piece, of cake. Well goody for you. I told him I was stressed and don't need to think about what he is asking me right now because this isn't about him anymore.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory