Accelerated divorce due to OM...normal?

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Sweet-1, my H wanted out so bad he threatened to get a lawyer to force me to sign his papers. When I told him that I wasnt sure what to do with our pets, he actually suggested euthanasia! Replaced by aliens for sure. I told him I wouldnt as long as he was involved with the OW. Not that it did me a whole lot of good, but I did wait the affair out. Now its over, but he still doesnt want to come home. So yes, I think that accelerated divorce is absolutely normal in these situations... Hold your ground! Dont sign anything until you are ready to, its the both of your marriage, you BOTH decide when its over.

It seems like as long as you save all of the bank information her hiding assets should be fairly easy to prove. I wish you luck with the custody.

All at once is absolutely how it happens, maybe its to prove to you that you are stronger and more resilient than you ever could have known without such a trial.