After further review and reflection what has worked?
- Giving her space
- Agreeing to everything she wants
- Answering her phone calls
- Standing up to her

What hasn't:
Pursuing--asking why she is doing this, if there is any possibility of us getting back together, etc.
- Not being available to answer her phone calls


Having said all this, it appears to me that she has not changed one bit even though I have. This has been her act the whole time we have been married. She always gets angry when she doesn't get her way--ALWAYS!!!She's still abusive verbally. Kind of wants to have her cake and eat it too with the whole calling me and passing along her day, etc. I still don't understand the whole passing me job openings at her work and other things like offering to buy me a movie last night. A lot of things don't add up. I re-read the watch and wait chapter in DR last night as it feels like I'm basically at a standstill and waiting for the other shoe to drop.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!