I'm guessing her father or someone told her to overpay and leave the accounts in the overdraft so that it looks like she's worse off than she is. She has asked for spousal support, even though she is a manager with over 50 employees under her, with a hefty salary. Most likely because with the 1 week on 1 week off custody, she will get very little child support "I can't live my life without it!" I thought it was to help our children not her life. My lawyer has asked for copies of all Credit cards and bank account statements that we know of, but I suspect there is at least one more bank account. There were some cheques from her to her in Oct for $1000 that were cashed but there are no deposits anywhere.
I admit I needed my eyes opened, but why does it seem to happen all at once?
Last edited by sweet-1; 04/01/0906:03 PM.
Me: 36 years old 1st marriage Wife: 40 years old second marriage S: 12 D: 6 Status: Separated Nov 2/08, Served papers Feb 18/09. PA confirmed 03/09 Custody: 1 week on, 1 week off, wife wants sole.