Have to agree with Kerry, T. You should be on jeopardy asking Alex for "things i don't give a sh!t about for $500 please".... Let them do their thing...being pissed won't change anything in their life...it will change yours though. Especiially if your kids see their father hurt. Believe me, kids notice everything...so as much as this hurts, do not bad mouth the xw, try to be "nice" with her when the kids are around. This is the biggest gift you can give them right now T. Sorry you are going through this but for what it's worth, you are not alone...both Kerry and I have been there. Move on amigo....move on...