Yes, Tal, STBXW is a fool, but a dangerous fool...
Our L's had another meeting yesterday. The news is that STBXW is not even waiting for the D day to get here before starting the effort to file a custody suit. STBXW has asked if I would accept their terms for scaling my custody back to just 11 weeks out of the 12 weeks per year of track-out times (S8 is in year-round school) -- except she'd still get half of the holidays anyway even though most of them in our track fall within the track-out periods anyway.
It's a poison pill they know I cannot accept.
On top of that I'd be liable for helping her with most of her daycare costs and responsible for ALL of the costs during track-out (when the costs double.)
I have to say no. And they know it -- that can only mean they're now gearing up for a court battle to take my S's away.