Yes, Tal, STBXW is a fool, but a dangerous fool...

Our L's had another meeting yesterday. The news is that STBXW is not even waiting for the D day to get here before starting the effort to file a custody suit. STBXW has asked if I would accept their terms for scaling my custody back to just 11 weeks out of the 12 weeks per year of track-out times (S8 is in year-round school) -- except she'd still get half of the holidays anyway even though most of them in our track fall within the track-out periods anyway.

It's a poison pill they know I cannot accept.

On top of that I'd be liable for helping her with most of her daycare costs and responsible for ALL of the costs during track-out (when the costs double.)

I have to say no. And they know it -- that can only mean they're now gearing up for a court battle to take my S's away.

What is wrong with some people?


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.