Hi Bink, I'm sorry for the mess you're in. As Kerry says you probably still don't know what's hit you. Your kids are too little right now to not benefit from both parents around the clock. But it seems like your wife has serious character flaws, as demonstrated by her selfish/reckless behavior and it spells serious problems down the road for the kids as she keeps trying to fulfill her fantasies to the detriment of everyone else.
So in long haul you'd probably make a much better primary parent as the girls grow up. If she insists on moving far away then I suggest you insist on changing custody % and child support so you can give the kids a more stable upbringing and pay for childcare while you are at work.
