Hey guys, thanks for your input on anger. I may have overstated that a little....which I have a tendanvy to do. Hurt and injustice may be fuelling "it". More resentment than anger...it is like I am fighting to grow that resentment in order to move forward. how is that for some introspection? Anyhow, we have since spoken about the money / house issue on the phone and things have been clarified. I think I will setup my bike on the excercise roller and sweat out some of that resentment....maybe watch italy beat ireland in a soccer world cup qualifier will raise my spirits.