I was going to reach out to you today because we haven't heard from you in a while.
You guys would benefit from Schnarch, I think. Did you read PM yet?
How do you get along outside the bedroom lately? Are things good?
Is there "sex" beyond the four sides of the bed? Are you flirtatious? Do you send sexy texts or do other stuff throughout the day?
It sounds like she is trying to give you what you want, but she doesn't understand what you *really* want. Do you talk to her (in a patient, loving way - nonreactive) about what you just wrote?
