Is the best choice for long term marital success to let him make any decisions to move out?
Pretty, I am sorry. Do you see the burden you are placing on people asking for advice in that? Wrong advice and you have a horrible outcome.
The question seems to be: Let him stay until he chooses or force him to leave...
Both are hard, the grass is going to look greener on the other side of the fence no matter what you decide. But the trick to that is...the grass isn't greener it is just different.
I would not recommend forcing him out until you can no longer take it.
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