After self-assessment, I would say I pursed a tad too much.
Having said that, how do I get her back to where we were at? . . .
I would suggest you go back and REALLY try to objectively look at your own situation thus far, and ask yourself:
- What has WORKED?
- What clearly HASN'T worked?
If you want to get back to where you were before, you need to figure out how you got there. Have you kept a journal? If not, these threads can be your journal, but try to build a thorough timeline for yourself, and see what she has responded to (NOTE: do NOT go by what made her angry, or what she SAID, but rather how she responded and what she DID. Words are just a head-fake).
