They have to decide that for themselves. My H continues to tell me he doesn't want it to work and never will again. I am not sure how you enter a M and decide so quick you don't want it to work. I think that part will always be a mystery and it the hardest part for me. I never got a chance to truly know our potential together and that will always haunt me.
I have sent some pics of me skiing and hiking and had responses from that. He asked if I found some guys to hang out with :-). I am still learning to manage our R will be hold for a while and possibly will never be resolved. I will keep hope though :-)
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09
