MC sorry to hear the news, I have sympathy for you since I have been on the other side. My H got his OW pregnant.

I totally agree its her news to tell the kids, my advice is to at least be there when it happens because they are going to need you big time.

I wish I had some good advice to give you other than just try and take care of yourself and be there for your kids, but thats about it. You may want to explore the legal and financial responsibilities that go along with this newest bombshell, simply because the law doesn't always take all the factors into account.

Just try and get through your days and do the best you can.

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option