Thank you for responding. I will be careful. I don't have control over anything except me. She's not even acting like herself...she used to never curse in front of our kids, and would never think of 'using' the children in our difficulties. It's like I'm dealing with somebody that I don't know right now.
Remember one of DB's underlying assumptions - don't believe the majority of what you hear, see, etc.
Me: 34 WAW: 33 M: 4 T: 7 K: B2, B1 Bomb 12/08, sep in same house W moved out 2/09 w/K