He is trying to justify his actions and why things won't work.
This is one of the hardest things for me to wrap my brain around. The other person has to want things to work. My wife doesn't want things to work and it sounds like your husband doesn't want things to work either. So, how do you make them want to make it work? Tough question. So far, for what I can make out, getting a life it part of it. You have to make him think that you are awesome and he would be a fool to give you up. You're still deployed, right? Take some pics of you having fun with some other people--I know there are guys where you are at. Not saying to do anything wrong but hey, he can draw his own conclusions about what's happening as he's making you guess about what his plans are probably. Hope you have a good day!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
