I considered it long and hard - and still consider it from time to time.
Since I know the OM, I wanted to ask him to meet me somewhere (for a beer, or a coffee, etc) and just say "WTF Dude? What are you thinking?" - or something similar but probably more polite.
I decided not to. Since I don't know what would happen and what it would cause, I decided to do nothing.
He does work out at the same gym, and I have seen him avoiding me...
His biggest fear is that I will come up with proof and expose him to his wife. I'll just let that sit there as an open threat.
So my advice -- as good as it sounds -- don't do it.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.
