Saving Military Marriage - 3

[AFWAW]

It is hard to decipher. My wife tells me things that are cruel as well. In my mind, they do this to make it easier to execute and justify what they are doing. Mine has told me everything from I'm an emotional toddler to stop acting like I'm 12 to she doesn't love me and so on. Let's put it this way. What obligation did he have to marry you? None is the answer--he wanted to do it. He may have cheated in his previous relationships--I could see why he wouldn't tell you this previously. The rest sounds like garbage to justify his actions.