I know one the first things we are supposed to grasp is to believe nothing our S says.

My H told me so many things this morning that just don't add up. He says he cheated in all of his previous Rs - which he told me he was always faithful. And everything he told me were just lines & thiings you say to women and he didn't mean any of them. And our vows were just words.

I just don't know what to believe or think at this point. Is this truly who he is or is he just pushing my buttons? It's hard to decifer anything!!

Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09