WOW!!! I didn't see that coming...just want you to know that I'm here for you, praying for you and your family as always.
I don't know anything about the legal side of this, but you should call the attorney like Stillhope says!
And, I agree that she should tell the kids. It's not your issue to discuss with them...at least not now. They'll obviously need to discuss it later to get a handle on things.
Love to you!! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!