So another thing I've been meaning to share. So I was by my in-laws on Sunday and had a long talk with sister in law. So H is parading OW all around and it felt so good to hear that no one in H's family likes her. SIL has the same feelings like me -- she isn't a nice person. Putting the A aside, I really think that she is just not a nice person. All of H's family agrees except for his teenage cousins and nieces. The one thing I am grateful for is having the support from H's family. SIL said that H knows that he can't bring her to their house. So it's official, none of H's friends nor family likes her (maybe some who I don't know) but its like I said she is just not nice. Her entire demeanor looks mean -- and I'm not being biased. I could die and I wouldn want H to remarry but not her. H even took her by his cousin's restaurant and I hear they said their spirit don't take to her at all and that watch he will be running back to his wife when she's finished with him.
But I also take it as a compliment to me and the kind of person I am. I feel assured that I do have H's friends and family support. All of them tell me how much respect they have for me and I should go on with my life because they want to see me happy and that H is crazy. I feel good about that. I've always and still do love H's family anyway. I always said H is package deal. With all honesty H's family is one of the reasons I so want my M to work out. I always looked forward to my kids having his family -- he has a huge family, and I know what love my children would have. But I guess it looks like that is just not going to happen. God has other plans for me I guess. Funny is that I always said that what I have is so rare that my MIL and I get along so well. I sure do consider her my second mommy. I just love that woman. H gets jealous of our R since MIL told him that Vic is a daughter to me.
Anyone, one other gossip... so SIL told me that you know that OW is married but her and her H broke up as well. I always thought it strange that H would go to their house to "visit his son" and he always said that OW's H didn't mine. Well, only to hear from SIL that OW's H also had a girlfriend and that the GF had moved in with OW and her H and my H went by one day and saw the girl there and no one seemed bothered. OW's H and his GF had one room and my H and OW would be in another. IS THIS FOR REAL???!!! What vulgarity. This is definitely above and beyond my moral sense. Nastiness to the maximum extent. And to think OW has two kids and one a little girl that witnesses all of this. A great example, right? I also her that OW's H want her gone out of the house. My mom and I speculate that OW H's probably brought his GF there since my H was going by and he just didn't care anymore. He was the only one working to pay the rent anyway. And from my experience with OW she just has no respect for anyone (even H said once that she doesn't respect her own mother) so I'm sure she showed her H no respect. I wonder why my H thinks she will respect him?? Good luck to them with that.
