This is definitely not an easy thing. I know too well how hard this will be for you since my H has a child with OW. The NC thing does not work and OM unfortunately will never go away, since he will be around in some form. The funny thing is that this will be especially hard for the unborn because we know how fickle their R is. I wish you the best of luck and we're here for you. I think your W should be the one to have to tell your kids though without you there. Don't save her from having to deal with this consequence. You will have to just be there for them. Best of luck.
