Accelerated divorce due to OM...normal?

[sweet-1]

Already done, going to see the lawyer this afternoon. Also found an overpayment of $1000 on an old fuel card I set up for my business years ago. We stopped uding the account 2 years ago, but never closed it. The print out is going to the lawyer as well. I'm going to ask him not to do anyhting on the file until May. As I'm facing a layoff, the affair, the divorce, general job stress, and the kids are being really rebellious these last few weeks. I just need a few weeks to process and decide what to do for me! Other than weekly riding lessons and emergencies, I'm going dark.