A new and open question, perhaps for cross-posting to the infidelity threads (though not as much traffic over there):
What are the community's views on the subject of confronting the OP? Not in a violent way, of course (pity, that), but letting OP know that you know?
DON'T DO IT. It only elevates him in importance, and you'll find that the two of them will have a good laugh at your expense. Paradoxically, it makes you look weak.
You can't believe anything he would say to you anyway, so why send Chamberlain to Munich?
