You know the opinion of everyone on here about you moving out. We pretty much all see it as a bad idea. When you say that your wife is telling you to look for rental accommodation when you move back in to your house, it sounds to me as though you are still letting her push you around. Don't keep letting her dictate how this is going to go. You have a say in your life, your home, and the lives of your children. Stand up and make yourself heard. She requires unconditional love and respect? Damn it man, you need to demand the same thing from her! You are not a doormat.