Hey Girl You're doing great in my opinion. And you're right, we're in the middle of all of this together. I think your H is on his way back if not there completely. I agree with AJ that he's waiting and watching to see if/when you go back to "your old ways." It might take a while for the changes to be complete and to prove to him and really you too, that you are the new and improved you. I think that if you like the new you, you're going to be fine and the changes are going to stay put because they make YOU happy. Don't worry about his brother any more. My suggestion: Be sympathetic to his brother with things like "I hope they work it out. They are such a great couple. I hope it's just a bump." And make no mention of your bumps. I think if you attack someone he loves, it's going to make him recoil. If you put it to him that his brother really is a good guy just in a bad spot where he may have made some bad choices, it will make him feel better and create a better relationship between you all. That's always always the better road to take. You are doing great. Just write out your plan. I've started the Solution Journal so I can track progress and backslides too.
